Operate in love, not lust

Dating a non christian advice

Don't team up with those who are unbelievers. Mutual boundary keeping reflects maturity.

But, the authority of Christ needs to take precedence over your physical drives. Christ tells you to be obedient to His word. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. You must decide before you go on the date what your limits will be. You are subject to parental authority.

Don't team up with those who

The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned. If the social, emotional, spiritual dimensions are missing or lacking, you are out of balance. Both partners should take responsibility for setting limits. You both feel the attraction building up.

It feels incredibly good to give in to passion. Society tells you to give in to the moment. If you feel convicted of certain behaviors, stop doing them. Knowing that they are Christians and have the same beliefs is a great place to start.

Mutual boundary keeping reflects maturity

Love is the fruit of the Spirit. From love comes self-control.